Dr Wan and his family went on a vacation to Europe and once they had to drive 3 days continuously, day and night, to get to Germany. So, they all got into the car — he, his wife, and his 3 years old daughter.
His little daughter has never traveled at night before. She was scared the first night in the car, with deep darkness outside.
“Where are we going, Daddy?” “To your uncle’s house, in Germany.”
“Have you been to his house before?” “No.”
“Then, do you know the way?” “Maybe, we can read the map.”
Comment
Women are God’s special creatures. They play a very important role in God’s agenda. When a man is blessed with a wonderful woman as wife, you should be thankful and do everything within your power to cherish her. The scriptures say “who can find a virtuous woman? Her price is far above rubies…” It takes searching for you to find her, they don’t fall from the sky and when you do get her, then, you have someone whose price is worth more than the most precious gemstone. You may not know the value of whom God has blessed you with until you see the pain another man goes through for marrying the wrong person. You come back home to the warm embrace of your wife; your neighbor comes home to meet a woman waiting to nag him to pieces. You come home to a well ‘home-cooked’ meal but not your neighbor; he’s got to fight for every meal he gets and you think you are not blessed? You’ve been with same woman for 5, 10, 15 or more years. The other guy isn’t that lucky: he’s had to cope with 3 marriages over the same period and even contemplating the fourth and you think you are not blessed? There is yet so much your wife can do but you have a role to play. When you fail to water a plant, it will wilt with time. Women are like such plants, when you fail to ‘water’ them you might lose them. Although you might remain married, but you will cease to enjoy your marriage. It is therefore of essence that you recognize and meet the needs of your wife. Examine some tips with me: